hello everyone, i'm here looking for advice on my marriage. the problem is that i find my husband sexually unattractive. he isn't repulsive looking or anything, but i just don't fancy him at all.
i think it started after the baby was born 2 years ago. i've hardly slept with him since. when he tries to get near me i actually feel sick and kind of feel that i don't love him.
we get on okay apart from this and he loves our son very much.
i don't know what to do, i'm 100% certain this isn't just a rough patch, i can't see myself ever fancying him again. so, i don't know whether to leave him or stay in a sexless partnership or try to bring myself to have sex with him again.
i really feel guilty over this and don't know what to do. i've still got a sex drive , just not for him, iykwim. i'm 29 and he's 38.
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totally don't fancy husband.
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pouringrain · 11/04/2009 15:31
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