I am currently in a messy situation. I will try to keep it short...
My dh, my dd and I share a house (rented) with a good friend. My dh and I are on shaky ground relationship wise. I am considering separating but still have a glimmer of hope that we might make it "back to what it once was" somehow. But, I'm in no way sure that we will be together 6 months from now. So, enter my friend into the equation. In general, no complaints about her from our side. HOWEVER, in the last two months, she has brought home a string of random men and had rather loud boisterous sex. I was traveling for at least two of the events. My dh was kept awake by it all and is FUMING. Early in this series, he told me I needed to tell her to quit it but I seriously doubted there would be repeats. There were. She's been seeing MAN A recently, so I thought it would stop (although there is the problem of their loud sex) but she proceeds to bring MAN B home this weekend followed by MAN A the next day. My husband has effectively said that either she promises never to bring ANYONE home or she moves out or he moves out. We have not talked to her yet. He wants me to talk to her even though he is the one who is most upset about it. I don't really know what to think / do. She is a dear friend, I don't know if my dh and I are going to last, and I may end up alone at the end of all this. I don't know what my question is... I may just need a hug...
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Torn between dh and dear friend
notwhoyouthink2 · 04/02/2009 22:18
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