WAYYYY TMI but i need to --brag-- know

[Mamazon]

as some of you may know (cos ive been yacking on to everyone that'll listen) i have a new fella.

well sex is pretty darn fantastic. but afterwards i feel like im h aving very minor period pains. they dont hurt as such, just feel a little uncomfortable.

now he is rather ahem, big. the sex itself isn't uncompfortable at all though.

is there something i should be aware of or is it justthat my body had forgotten what an orgasm felt like?

[scorpio1]

i think its because he is, ahem, bigger, and hitting your cervix. Be careful when you're on top so it doesn't hurt too much.

[SlightlyMadScotland]

Your uterus is possibly just so excited about seeing Semen for the first time in ages it is having a bit of a dance.

But seriously...it is probably your uterus contracting in response to the sex. Not unusual I don't think...I used to get it the morning after when I was erm younger.

[Mamazon]

well dp will be most amused to know that he is hitting the roof so to speak

[BitOfFun]

Good on ya gal! Always good to get the smutty good news stories here!

[Mamazon]

well it'd been so long prior to him that i had forgotten.

[MuppetsMuggle]

i've had that too with DP, it goes after va while!! just your cervix dancing with joy lol

[Mamazon]

well it can bleedin well stop dancing....he keeps talking babies

[NimChimpsky]

Oh he sounds very keen.

Your cervix obviously likes him...

Is sex very, very different with a different partner? I know the emotions are different but does it feel physically very different.

Feel free to ignore my nosiness. Only ever been dh.

[MuppetsMuggle]

I wish my DP would talk babies - my fault really tho i need to finish my studies first - but i am sooooooooo broody!

Nim i think the sensation is different with every partner!

[NimChimpsky]

God that sounds really dense doesn't it? A friend asked the other day if I minded never knowing what other men were like. I don't mind and just assumed that though some men would be better at different peripheral extas, assuming an average sized endowment, isn't the actual intercourse bit same old same old?

I feel so green.

[NimChimpsky]

*extras

[OsmosisBanana]

I used to get this all the time, kinda like period pains afterwards?

The advice I got given was take some pain killers first

I think my problem was I was 'squeezing' him too much as well as quite vigorous sex. Sound anything like your scenario?

Now I've had DD and am much lazier more relaxed in bed and squeeze less it doesn't happen.

[MuppetsMuggle]

sometimes same old yeah!! but we have quite a varied sex life - although not for next 2 weeks (anti-biotics) so bless him he will have to wait!

[lovelessbroad]

butting in blithely - I think it is completely different with every person.

[nailpolish]

no, the intercourse is not the same old same old AT ALL

good on you mamazon

[nailpolish]

why cant you have sex and antibiotics?

[Mamazon]

nnoooo Nim. sex is very very different with different partners.

its a bit like eating a chocolate cake. whislt they all taste like chocolate sponge they are all different in their own way.
and if you get a cheapo supermarket brand they are foul!

TBH i was dreading us first having sex. apart from teh fact it'd be my first shag in 4 years and the only one since meeting my ex aged 19 (whilst still young and beautifull and able to see my fanjo if i looked down rather than a fat belly)
but also because im 6'1 and he's only 5'7 and i wasn't sure how it'd all...work!

but it does. hoorah

[Mamazon]

i take it your mean yoru on the pill? could he not just wear a hat?

[MuppetsMuggle]

NP - we don't like using condoms - passion killers! and not in a position to have another baby yet!

[Deemented]

FOUR YEARS????? Fooking hell

I'm only six months without a partner and i think my hymens grown back already...

[Mamazon]

it was a very long very lonely and very expensive (batteries) 4 years.

I have an incredibly high sex drive so it very nearly killed me

[Deemented]

I feel your pain - hubbs and i both had a very high libido.

I thank god everyday that i have mains adapdted vibes [wink

[Mamazon]

deemented - are you a namechanger. for some reason i have been reading your posts and feeling like i know you

[Deemented]

No - i'm me. A relative newbie here, and i've not posted anything that i wouldn't put my name to. Am quite happy to own my words.

Tho i do frequent a few other forums, so you may know me from there, under another name...