confused over relationship

[steph29]

is keeping a roof over all our heads a good enough reason to stay in a relationship? My partner and i have been together 13 years we have 2 kids but no longer have a sex life (his choice) no affection either but shows no sign of wanting to split up or be with anyone else.
we get on ok day to day as family but when we're alone or with other couples i realise we aren't really a coupleanymore and haven't been for a long time.
Do i muddle through and get on with it or split up the family just because i'm not overly happy?

[lilac21]

Look at the thread 'How do you know when it's over?' - you'll see that there are several of us in the same situation as you and some of the comments may help.

[SammyK]

goes looking for thread

[steph29]

thanx will give it a read! quite honestly i'm surprisedat how many people seem to be in a similar situation , i really felt it was just me for a very long time

[lilac21]

Steph, you're definitely not alone -it's not easy to discuss this with friends and family but you'll find support on here!

[Fizzfiend]

It's hard when things aren't good, but not bad enough to leave. What the hell do you do? A few of us here with you. No answers but big ears!