You helped me so much earlier this week I thought I would pose a question for you.
I was a victim of Domestic Violence and got rid of my abuser a month ago.
At the time I didnt believe I was a victim but the police and victim support have convinced me I was cleverly "groomed" into believing it was mt fault.
So all my thoughts are still abit in that vein although things are getting back to normal...whatever that is.
he even cleverly made me believe I wanted him back....
My question is this.... is it my "duty" to tell the mother of my ex's child, who hes never met, whats happened. Shes coming over from Australia and a year ago she asked me if he was capable of kidnap. A year ago I didnt think he was capable of assault!!!
Noone would believe he was capable. The charming man, and good friend, can talk his way out of anything.
I dont trust him an inch. Ive discovered he doesnt see his other children for some "reason"....and I dont want my children near him
what would you do?
I dont want to sound like I want revenge. I dont...I want to hide.
But I want to do whats right. If something happened I would never forgive myself.
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Pen67 · 29/12/2008 12:19
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