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I have a crush and it's exciting. But I feel as though it's wrong.

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 08/12/2008 16:31

Surely not?

I'm mid divorce. I know I shouldn't flirt but I can't help it.

This man is gorgeous, he's a year younger than me (27) and so lovely. I enjoy walking past the shop he works in as he always pops out to say hello or winks through the window.

He's a gardener and a tree sugeon, he works in the local garden/florists part time.

I feel like a bloody teenager.

Someone tell me

-it's all fine and healthy and innocent
or
-it's bad and I need to start dealing with real life rather than fantasy.

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OrmIrian · 08/12/2008 16:31

It's all fine and healthy.

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electra · 08/12/2008 16:32

why do you think it's wrong?

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whoingodsnameami · 08/12/2008 16:32

it's all fine and healthy and innocent......ENJOY!!!!!

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bananaknickers · 08/12/2008 16:32

If your both single then what could be wrong?

That's a great feeling isn't it?

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AMumInScotland · 08/12/2008 16:35

It's fine and healthy and normal. You're single and you're exercising your "muscles" again, very much like being in your teens and trying out those feelings for the first time. It might stay a crush, or you might decide it's worth getting to know him as a person. Either way is fine - enjoy the freedom to imagine!

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Anna8888 · 08/12/2008 16:36

Sounds fine to me.

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 08/12/2008 16:39

It feels so right that it ought to feel wrong. I hope you see what I mean.

I realy am having those flutters. It's been a while.

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Mamazontopofsanta · 08/12/2008 16:40

it's all fine and healthy and innocent.

get a pic so we can oggle him too

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Anna8888 · 08/12/2008 16:41

ENJOY IT . Take full advantage while you can...

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dizzyjingles · 08/12/2008 16:44

oooohh I love a good flutter story and I think with everything your soon to be exDH put you through you're more than entitled to be sascheying (sp?) past a shop window and enjoying a wink and a grin

enjoy it all and fully agree with Mamazon - get us a stalkerish photo so we can all have a swatch!!!!!

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 08/12/2008 16:51

I'm not sure stalkerish pap shots are the smoothest thing to do.

I'll continue to smile idly at him.

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dizzyjingles · 08/12/2008 16:53

fair enough - I have been crisiticised for being a tad over enthusiastic before

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