Ok, background.. I am the product of Mums first marriage, she remarried and I have a brother who is considerably younger than me (20 years )
So, my Mum changed jobs and as part of the initial setup thingy had to make a personalised intro letter to send to clients. The idea is to give a bit of background so the clients feel they "know" you . I didn't see it until long after it was done, printed and sent out. When I read it she said she was X years old and has one son who is X years old... No mention of me at all.
Now, this really upset me but I had no idea how to say anything to her, it made me feel like a second class citizen - or perhaps that I was such an embarresment to her that she did not want to have to talk about me with clients. So, I said nothing (in true Brit. still, plastered on a smile and complimented her on it!)
I know that she loves me, I know I am not an embarresment (anymore ) BUT it is 5 years on and it still upsets me. The bloomin thing is not even used any more and it is history. However, it still makes me question my realationship with her, I think perhaps she is faking our closeness a little bit...
So, it is 5 years on, should I suck it up and get over myself or should I ask her why she denied me in this way?
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NCRedBreastedBirdy · 06/12/2008 22:23
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