I'm getting totally fed up. I decided to give the online dating thing another go but it seems I'm just being constantly messed around. For instance I was talking to one bloke for ages and he seemed really nice, as soon as I mentioned the DC's that was it...never heard from him again.
Another one sent me a message and I didn't have time to reply straight away...a few hours later he sent an email saying "you looked at my profile, you could have at least said Hi...sorry to have bothered you" so I sent him a message saying "sorry, didn't have much time earlier. How are you?" and I got a really happy reply back saying "great thanks, how are you?" so I answered again...being all friendly and never heard from him again!
The last one has me really puzzled. He sent me a message ages ago and emailed back and forth a bit and then all of a sudden he went quiet. I left him alone until last week I received another email off him saying "I havn't heard from you for ages. I'm worried I frightened you away, if you are not interested that is ok but could you at least tell me why? I'm not sure if my last message got to you, I don't want to be a pain but I'd be really grateful if you could just send me one more message to let me know, either way" so i replied and explained that I didn't get his last message and sorry he thought I wasn't interested etc and then he sent back a HUGE reply, going into detail about his life, going into conversation, asking me things etc...I replied in a similar fashion and have not heard from him since!
Is it me? what am I doing wrong? I'm starting to get tired of the whole thing
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MrsSnape · 14/10/2008 21:23
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