My Dad has booked a week's holiday in the UK, for Mum and Dad, me, DH and our 2 DC's, plus my sister, her DH and their 2 DC's. 4 boys in total ages, 1,2,5 & 7.
It seemed like a good idea at the time, but as it draws closer, I'm starting to worry it will be quite stressful. My main issues are:
- My sister has a very short fuse
-My mum will never give an opinion on anything, but if you make the "wrong" decision, will then spend the rest of the day saying "are you sure"
-Dad enjoys moaning, which generally we all ignore, but for a week..?
-I have the oldest 2 of the 4 boys. I don't think they are badly behaved, but they are boys. My dad and sister's DH are pretty free with their criticism of the boy's behaviour and Dad of my parenting methods.
-DH gets impatient with my parent's inability to make a decision.
-I will get over sensitive if it feels like the babies are being cooed over all the time and my DC's are being told off constantly.
Really all these are lovely people and for a day at a time we would have a great time together, but for a week in close confines, I think I'm going to need the patience of a saint (so will they). The children will love having their grandparents for a whole week and my DC's love being with their little cousins, but the extra excitement isn't going to help their behaviour. At least AF's just been,so at least I won't have PMT
What are your top tips?