Is there any point trying to get my 17 DD to see how exhausted I am, and that's why I lost it at the weekend. See My DD has said she hates me and wants me dead in teenagers.
She has no idea how hard I have to work. The following is all slightly wrong to protect the people I work with:
Let's imagine I'm a mental health worker, who works long shifts, sometimes doing heavy work, sometimes standing for many hours, sometimes being shouted at by people who are mentally ill, relatives (who may be ill or stressed) and trying to support professionals who frequently fall into depression, but will never admit it because of the job. Now let's imagine coming home to a teenage DD who then demands to be driven places, tells me that shes had a terrible day at college, shes exhausted, that YOU are always exhausted that's your excuse. She won't help at all, and I've accepted that until the AS exams are over that's ok, but yes at the weekend, on a night when I knew I wouldn't need to drive or work the next day, or anything, I drank too much shouted at my partner because of the trust issues (affair and still working with her). How can I get DD to see me as human but not keep comparing me to alcoholics, crack addicts or skunk users?
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DD 17 hates me and has told friends' parents lies
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nearlybonkers · 20/05/2008 10:52
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