I have been married for 10 years and have a 3 year old and an 11 month old.A month ago my husband came home from a week in London at a business conference and told me that he no longer feels the same way about me, no longer loves me and wants to move out to get his head straight.
He is moving out this Friday and I feel really confused. Up until he went away I was very happy and thought our marriage was a good one. I have asked friends and begged them to be honest with me as to if they suspected he was unhappy but everyone has found it all as much as a shock as I did. Even my family GP was shocked as she was under the impression we were a strong family unit.
My initial suspicion was that he must have met someone else but he has strongly denied this. His parents both died 4 years ago, he did not grieve and felt a lot of anger to his father who suddenly cut him out of the will. He says he is in a dark place about this and needs time to sort himself out. I am not sure if this is the case or if he is looking for a 'get out'. He has agreed to individual counselling but not to couple counselling as he feels it would be no use.
Any advice/experiences would be appreciated as I am so confused.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Not sure what has happened with our marriage.
3 replies
advice · 15/04/2008 18:18
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.