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[Dixichik]

My dp is really pi**ing me off.

This month yet again he has hardly contributed anything towards the housekeeping, bills, credit card etc etc. (£200) to be exact. He is self employed and can work the five days I don't. Our bills each month total around £1100. I only work two days a week and my wages just pay the essentials, such as the mortgage, utilities and credit cards. I cannot buy food or pay for emergencies when things go wrong.

If I worked full time and he stayed at home and looked after the kids I would earn more than enough to pay everything.

He is a complete caveman and will not stay at home more than the two days a week he already does, basically because he is an egocentric male.

We have had a huge barny and he says he will get a contracted job full time earning a lot less than I would (him working monday to friday means I would have to give up my job)

Shall I beat him over the head with the frozen turkey??

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Happy christmas to you all XXXX

[BotoxBabs]

You should be grateful hes not like that lazy arse git in EastEnders - the one that sits in his armchair all day watching the box & refusing to work.

Why cant you both work FT? is it because of the childcare costs?