Hi
I have been a single mother to a little boy who is 4 1/2 since he was 18 months. Recently my partner (who I have been going out with since my son was 3) moved in. We both work full time and earn similarly good salaries. Every month I pay school fees for my son and also for an au pair. I get very basic maintenance from my ex husband. At the moment I feel that all the responsibility for my son lies with me. I never ask my partner to babysit or to take my son to school (although he has offered). We are thinking of having another baby next year which will mean that my salary will be significantly reduced for a number of months and we will obviously have to work as a team both parentally and financially. I was wondering what other people do in this situation and at what point do you change from a single mother, child and boyfriend to a proper family unit?
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Vincenza · 31/10/2007 20:00
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