Just had a call from my mum in law.She has said I am giving the kids money for xmas this time.I have said no please dont they wanted something specific a present will be better.Most of our relatives are very elderly and I will always buy them presents for the kids but they can hardly walk I wouldnt expect it.My mum in law said well I just dont have time I am going here for a week down to see so and so for a week I only have 3 weeks at home between now and xmas.So i then said well i will check out argos and reserve it on line and you can go collect.This is what is sticking in my throat- she said no i cannot be bothered trailing here and there for stuff it will have to be money end of.
Last week i turned down my sister on xmas day out of fairness to them and so they would have somewhere nice to come on xmas day.I am thinking now why should I bother we hardly see them they come home from caravan 2 days a week and if we cannot fit in to go and see them then its tough but they will not break their plans.Even the day my hubbys gran had a suspected stroke they still went although she was in hospital and they had planned to go out with friends.When my dad died they came home the day of the funeral despite me needing them to come and look after their grandkids for an hour so I could take my mum to the chapel of rest- they had othr plans I ended up taking my kids with me - luckily my friend works there and was able to entertain them.I am sorry I am going completely off on a tangent now but they are so selfish.I am more disgusted with her tone she was downright rude.
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joanna4 · 25/10/2007 15:40
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