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Husband & I have been separated for nearly a year. We both live in our places. It has a very bitter split.
he hacked into my email account over the weekend & found emails between myself & my new partner. He went ballistic - lots of name calling, treating to post details to friends etc. After endless phone calls & messages I blocked his number for some peace.
We still have a joint bank acct due to business reasons. I went to pay for a £20 shop yesterday & my card was declined - I was very pissed off as I only had £30 in cash and no way of getting to a cash point for a while. When I got home I decided to pay some bills online (thinking it must have just been a blip in the shop). Cannot get on-line there is a problem with your card.
So I had to phone him to find out if he was having problems with his card as well ' oh yes I reported your card as stolen because you blocked me on the phone '
The bank wouldn't send out a new card until HE phoned them - so 3 days without a card (minimum) , £10 to my name & now I find out he has changed the address to his so I have to be at his mercy to tell me when it arrives !!!! How can he even report MY card as stolen ???
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onceatwatalwaysatwat · 06/12/2016 15:36
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