In March this year, after 42 years of emotional turmoil at the hands of an alcoholic mother, I finally cut ties with her after a particularly excruciating humiliation on holiday. I mistakenly took her away for a week, I should have known better I know, but she did her usual, got blind drunk, humiliated me, blamed it all on me...you'll know the drill.
There has been no contact since, she even missed my daughter's 21st birthday this year, of course I'll get the blame for that I suppose.
The thing is, with xmas coming up I'm starting to get really anxious. I'm guilt ridden, worried about her, determined to stand my ground but at the same time just feel desperately SAD. How do I get through this, it feels like a major milestone, like if I go through xmas without contact that will be it forever. I'm so confused. Anyone experienced this? TIA.
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estranged alcoholic mum, dreading xmas...advice?
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user1479460531 · 18/11/2016 09:30
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