Have name changed for this... I never thought I would be writing this.
So having been suspicious for a while I finally got hold of my husbands phone tonight. He has become very secretive over it lately and always seems to be on it.
Although there is no evidence of any actual meetings taking place. There is plenty of flirtation and messages that are not appropriate.
The worst thing is one is an old girlfriend who does initiate the messages every time. The other is more difficult as its a mutual married friend.
I don 't know where to start. I feel maybe we should try marriage counselling, but I don 't know if I am more upset over the kids and the whole idea of divorce than I am over losing him.
Is going to relate the best thing to do?
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I don't know what to do
fuckedupbigtime · 16/11/2016 21:35
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