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This evening I took DS to the barbar

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SoleBizzz · 15/11/2016 19:20

The barbar and I had a chat about music and his dislike for his rival barbar acRoss the road.

He then asked me when I was going to invite him to my hyse for steak, he doesn't mind big women like me and coukd handle all that..

I saud no thank you.

Fourth time in eight years men have wanted me to invite them to my house.

No each time.

I felt he was si cheeky and he asked me in front of my DS. DS is severe disabled.

Is that all I'm worth to men?

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SoleBizzz · 15/11/2016 19:25

Please excuse my typos.

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Shayelle · 15/11/2016 19:46

What a charmer. So impressive 🙄

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PilkoPumpPants · 15/11/2016 19:48

I'd complain to his manager. I'd be furious to be spoken to infront of my child like that.Angry

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SoleBizzz · 15/11/2016 19:50

He is the his own boss. I'm furious.

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mudandmayhem01 · 15/11/2016 19:53

He obviously fancies you but is also completely socially inept and managed to insult you whilst trying to ask you out. He sounds very immature, I can remember boys in about Y9 behaving in about the same way.Time to try the barber across the road instead!

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JenLindleyShitMom · 15/11/2016 19:53

Time for a new barber then!

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Shayelle · 15/11/2016 19:53

Dont ever go back there then. Just another creep eh!

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slightlypeevedwombat · 15/11/2016 19:53

i'd be going to barber across the road from now on

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SoleBizzz · 15/11/2016 19:56

He said he is from The Congo and can sing to me in French.

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mudandmayhem01 · 15/11/2016 20:00

Not making excuses for him but some men from some African cultures see being larger as a very attractive trait in a woman. He needs to brush up on English cultural norms though!

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SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 15/11/2016 22:55

And some men are just weird chancers. Sounds like a bullet dodged, Sole Flowers

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SoleBizzz · 16/11/2016 12:34

Not going back there!!!!!! Thank you for all of your replies.

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TheNaze73 · 16/11/2016 13:12

He's full of the lines isn't he???

Cultural difference is not an excuse for being so rude.

Vote with your feet

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SoleBizzz · 16/11/2016 15:00

He asked me twice if I was going back. I just glared at him.

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stopfuckingshoutingatme · 16/11/2016 15:23

He obviously fancies you but is also completely socially inept and managed to insult you whilst trying to ask you out

this!!! honestly its so bad its almost funny OP.


don't be furious, its waste of emotion. put it down to experience

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