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This evening I took DS to the barbar

(16 Posts)
SoleBizzz Tue 15-Nov-16 19:20:05

The barbar and I had a chat about music and his dislike for his rival barbar acRoss the road.

He then asked me when I was going to invite him to my hyse for steak, he doesn't mind big women like me and coukd handle all that..

I saud no thank you.

Fourth time in eight years men have wanted me to invite them to my house.

No each time.

I felt he was si cheeky and he asked me in front of my DS. DS is severe disabled.

Is that all I'm worth to men?

SoleBizzz Tue 15-Nov-16 19:25:14

Please excuse my typos.

Shayelle Tue 15-Nov-16 19:46:12

What a charmer. So impressive 🙄

PilkoPumpPants Tue 15-Nov-16 19:48:16

I'd complain to his manager. I'd be furious to be spoken to infront of my child like that.angry

SoleBizzz Tue 15-Nov-16 19:50:11

He is the his own boss. I'm furious.

mudandmayhem01 Tue 15-Nov-16 19:53:18

He obviously fancies you but is also completely socially inept and managed to insult you whilst trying to ask you out. He sounds very immature, I can remember boys in about Y9 behaving in about the same way.Time to try the barber across the road instead!

JenLindleyShitMom Tue 15-Nov-16 19:53:19

Time for a new barber then!

Shayelle Tue 15-Nov-16 19:53:26

Dont ever go back there then. Just another creep eh!

slightlypeevedwombat Tue 15-Nov-16 19:53:50

i'd be going to barber across the road from now on

SoleBizzz Tue 15-Nov-16 19:56:27

He said he is from The Congo and can sing to me in French.

mudandmayhem01 Tue 15-Nov-16 20:00:39

Not making excuses for him but some men from some African cultures see being larger as a very attractive trait in a woman. He needs to brush up on English cultural norms though!

SpongeBobJudgeyPants Tue 15-Nov-16 22:55:27

And some men are just weird chancers. Sounds like a bullet dodged, Sole flowers

SoleBizzz Wed 16-Nov-16 12:34:49

Not going back there!!!!!! Thank you for all of your replies.

TheNaze73 Wed 16-Nov-16 13:12:42

He's full of the lines isn't he???

Cultural difference is not an excuse for being so rude.

Vote with your feet

SoleBizzz Wed 16-Nov-16 15:00:26

He asked me twice if I was going back. I just glared at him.

stopfuckingshoutingatme Wed 16-Nov-16 15:23:54

He obviously fancies you but is also completely socially inept and managed to insult you whilst trying to ask you out

this!!! honestly its so bad its almost funny OP.

don't be furious, its waste of emotion. put it down to experience

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