I posted late last/early this year when my husband of 22 years (together 27) said last December that he didn't love me anymore, This followed a breakdown and a disclosure (to me) that he was sexually abused as a child.
He said he wouldn't make any rash decisions and he would try to make it work - we've had about 5 couples counselling sessions so far and at the last one she commented that one of us didn't seem to be trying,
This morning my husband told me he hadn't been trying as he'd told the big thing he'd been covering up but he still hadn't been honest with me and if it had ended he wouldn't have needed to.
He has been unfaithful to me with 4 different women. The last time was 5 years ago, the first one was 18 years ago, one lasted for over a year. He said he didn't love them it was for sex and friendship.
Our sex life wasn't great I will admit - we have two children (now in their early 20s) who have disabilities. I was exhausted and stressed.
He says he is sorry but I'm not sure if he wants me to forgive him, or even if I can.
Im completely lost.
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Heartbroken47 · 05/11/2016 17:28
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