Despite the fact that he's been gone for a couple of months.
I dropped all charges, dd2 wasn't well and has a disability. DS1 was not well either. I couldn't put them through a court case.
He counter sued and the police seemed good and very reassuring and felt that in all likelihood nothing would come of it.
Dd 2 asked him to drop the charges the other night, saying she couldn't face court. She can't. He has informed her that at least I wasn't thrown in a cell, that I should just accept a caution and that I am evil. I have stolen all their money for years, and reported him to the police to intimidate him. He is apparently paying ridiculous amounts of rent whilst not being in receipt of his benefits. Logically, I know none of this is true. Not a bloody word of it, but I've had no sleep worrying in case the police have decided it is me, although there is plenty of evidence to show it's not. Due to what I've been through with him, I have some quite serious mental health problems at the moment, along with PTSD and an eating disorder. Please help me logic this out. The children do need to tell me what he's saying because they need the reassurance that he's not going through the hell he says he is. For example, his ESA was stopped. I had to explain that it would have been illegal for me to have kept claiming on his behalf, which of course he doesn't tell them. I have emailed the police asking for some sort of reassurance, but please tell me this isn't going to happen. I'm very low again today. Thank you.
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