Considered NC but most people would recognise my posts anyway
I've been having problems with my ears lately. To the point where it's possible my hearing has been permanently affected
I'm already severely deaf and losing what I've got is terrifying me
I had one appointment lost with ENT specialist through the NHS when the department in my local hospital closed.
So I self referred to my own audiologist to at least find out if my hearing has been affected even if we don't know why.
My appointment was set for 3 weeks ahead and we was happy with that.
Two weeks later Dh transferred departments at work which meant that he wouldn't have finished work in time to have the children for my appoitment. No one else would have been able to do
His first day was my appointment day. He told me he would ask work if could finish work an hour earlier so I could attend my appoitment.
Wouldn't look brilliant with a new manager but it was important that I saw them
However on the Sunday he told me that he had just had a phone call. My appoitment had been cancelled through them, they had apologised and would send me a new one through the post.
3 weeks later, no new appoitment has come through, so I've rang today to find out what happened.
They are adamant, it wasn't cancelled and I had missed the appoitment.
I'm furious and devastated.
I can't ask him because he will swear he hadn't lied.
It's completely out of character for him. He's never done anything like this before and he has always put my health first
Could I be wrong and he did receive that phone call and somewhere got confused.
Or do I need to face the facts and accept he has probably lied straight to my face
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Soubriquet · 04/11/2016 16:05
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