My DM and her husband have never had a good relationship. Over the years there have been rows, threats and a lot of emotional abuse from both sides. Before they met my mother was quite emotionally abusive throughout my childhood.
I see her twice a week at the moment as I have DD who she loves. Yesterday she told me she'd just found evidence of her husband's ongoing affair. She told me I wasn't to tell my siblings or she'd never forgive me. Then she stopped answering her phone.
I've come round today and I'm met with the usual awkward wall of denial. She's no eating. He's pretending everything is fine. Nobody talks about anything. I'm still forbidden from speaking to my siblings so I'm just supposed to somehow deal with this.
I think emotionally I'd be better off being NC with her. But I don't think I could take her DGD away.
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Alabastard · 30/10/2016 15:47
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