Hello ladies, I will try to keep this short, I wanted advice from others that have been in my situation and how they coped and dealt with the betrayal. I was with my OH since we were 16 ( now 35 ) I have moved out As I found he was texting other "women" behind my back, people he met in work, from uni, from going out drinking with mates, anywhere he was basically I think he found a new phone buddy. He didn't do this for attention or an ego boost as he has absolutely no reason to, we were good together, same sense humour, liked and disliked same things and a good sex life, he never had a reason to feel "unwanted or neglected" I can't get my head around the fact that now every memory I have is tainted because he was at this bullshit behind my back, I can't believe he wud be this pathetic and needy, and to choose to do this knowing he wud lose his family. I was loyal to him throughout, but he was getting his kicks on the side, I have no proof any thing physical happened, but the want was there. And now I feel I wasted 19 fucking Years of my life and now have to start over.
How do you start to come to terms with the lies and bullshit that was your life for so long?
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KingFluff1981 · 30/10/2016 11:17
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