I love my DH, we've been together for a lot of years, have 2 dc.
Me and his parents done get on,at all, were civil these days but I cannot forget what had gone on in the past so just smile and nod.
my DH just doesn't get it, at all. He thinks that because it's in the past if doesn't mAtter, the way he sees it is that it's over and done with so therefore doesn't need to be discussed in the open.
Although if his brother sends a pair of trainers for our ds he expects him to wear them, wether they for him or not, I will make a point of saying "ds if they don't fit then don't wear them" he sees this as me just not wanting DC to have anything off his family when in actual fact it's him that wants his kids to wear anything of his family even if it doesn't fit them because it's off his family.
We are at a massive stand still..
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lokivonpoki · 28/10/2016 20:42
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