.. so my partnrr and i have been together about 10 months now and he seems to be a different person from when we started out. I know that everyone gets comfortable and thats a good thing in a relationship but how do you know of its just that your not right.
Over time he has shown his true colours hes extremly lazy his house is discusting and dispite me having a heart to heart about it with him stating not only is it gross it makes my life extremly hard work when i stay ober with my kids 3and 6 as its so unorganised and dirty. Needless to say nothing happened.
His personal hygene is rediculous We stayed this week as it was half term and he didnt shower between sat and wed And its such a turn off i just didnt even want to cuddle him in bed let alone have sex .
And sometimes it just seems like he dosent want to talk to me weve gone a whe evening without speaking and when ive casually asked if everything was ok he seemed fine , hes quite a quiet person in general tho
When we r at mine hes great he chips in hes helpful hes a different person and he will make the effort to travel the 3hours to mine on the train even tho.it takes me 1.5 hours to drive to him .
Is this just a relationship and im being needy or is he just slowly checking out of the relationship.
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I dont think my boyfriend likes me
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edgarsuit · 27/10/2016 17:50
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