Nearly six years after me and exh split, I find myself crying in the middle of the night remembering the night he walked out and then came back and had a go at me and I was huddled in a corner crying because I felt so small.
I have moved on and remarried, have my own place and am successful in my job. DC are with exh every other weekend and half the holidays - they are with him now.
The divorce was extremely difficult and he used every opportunity to twist the knife. I got a bad deal financially and there is a court order in place for contact. He now does not communicate and is very passive aggressive. He does not pay anything towards the children.
Will the scars always be there from EA? 90% of the time I feel like a strong survivor of a divorce but every now and then I have a massive crisis of confidence and feel like the crap person he always made me feel like.
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MsColouring · 24/10/2016 09:53
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