I have been crying on and off today I don't even know why. Well I do but why I'm crying about it I don't know.
I'm just back from a few days away with the kids for the October week. My mum treated us. Our home is slowing crumbling into a state of disrepair and it's far too small for our family size so we are finding it tough. I asked him to take advantage of the kids not being in the house and doing a couple wee painting jobs. Like putting a plaster on a bullet wound but it would have made the place a bit nicer to live in.
Anyway, I came home from a "holiday" where I had sole responsibility of 3 kids including a bf 8mo. I have an infected toe which is agony. I done all the driving at said holiday. The dcs are tired and cranky.
I am completely done in. I come home and DH is painting. No where near finished. The house is a tip. To be fair I didn't leave it sparkling when I left on Monday but he did say to me not to worry about the state of the house he would tidy it after work on Monday. I had to come in today and scrub the place.
I am so fed up with DH taking no responsibility for anything. I shouldn't have even had to ask him to paint. He never takes any initiative to do anything. Everything we have and everything we do is down to me. I'm exhausted. It's our anniversary tomorrow and his mum came up earlier to drop something off and happened to mention the dcs were staying with her tomorrow night because we were going out for our anniversary. First I've heard of this. I don't even think I can be bothered my head hurts every time I move.
Am I being too hard on him? I can't be bothered with him but I feel like I'm treating him like shit it's not his fault I ducked off on holiday.
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I am just so teary and I feel like shit and I've fell out with DH
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mayaknew · 21/10/2016 20:37
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