Shaky - need calm advice

TheFear · 2016-10-19 22:56:43

Tonight my husband came home from the pub and went berserk, took my phone, smashed it up and threw it in the garden, pushed and shoved me and screamed at me, called me horrible names. This is the culmination of a week of anger, name calling and threats. He's been like this before over the years but has calmed down and hasn't been this aggressive and plain illogical and off the wall, this is different. I don't want to call the police at this hour, there are kids here in bed and I don't want to frighten or wake them. What should I do? Should I call the police in the morning? Or go to my local station? I'm not sure what to do, my mind is buzzing. I'd appreciate if you could help me figure out what next. I do have a landline so I can make some calls in the morning, but I'm supposed to be going to work tomorrow. Ugh. Please be kind, help me get my head straight so I know what to do in the morning. I know I've read a hundred threads like this and now I see how so many of us are confused and fearful and lacking in decisiveness.

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