So DS1 is nearly 4, after that pregnancy I had a stone to lose - it took around 10 months. It wasn't just the weight loss though, I also got back to fitness and last year ran PBs in 10km, 10mile and half marathons.
Fast forward to now and DS2 is 4 months. I've got a stone to lose again and am back at gym and running - but I am really really struggling to come to terms with my body this time. It feels like the entirety of that weight is on my belly and it really repulses me.
I feel like it's my own fault for indulging in so much fatty food when pregnant too.
Getting to the gym or running is SO hard with 2, and DS2 is not a great sleeper so I'm bloody exhausted as well.DH is really supportive but his job has him away a lot so there's only limited time for me to do phys!
I signed up for a 10mile run in Nov to give me a target but I don't think I'm going to be able to do it, which upsets me too. It's not just the weight it's feeling so unfit and heavy that I hate.
Problem is that this is affecting our marriage. DH can't understand why if he finds me sexy it matters about the baby weight. He can't understand why I feel so low when he still fancies me.
Sex (or lack thereof) is fast becoming an issue now and it's affecting our intimacy.
He told me he hates that I am never naked in front of him now, I cover up after showers etc.
Basically just need some advice on coming to terms with my figure and accepting that it's going to take time to change it.
But also how to explain to DH better why I feel low even though he still fancies me.
I don't know why I'm so impatient this time round but it's driving me bonkers :-/
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Hate my body after 2nd child but DH can't understand it
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Pagetta · 12/10/2016 07:41
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