I posted a while ago about an ex-colleague I had a thing with, who inexplicably began to ghost me. It happens, made me a bit blue at the time, but I let it go.
Anyway, it's several weeks later and I met him at a mutual friend's birthday drinks a few days ago. I was polite when I saw him but didn't go out of my way to seek his company as I had other friends around to talk to.
So the night goes on, alcohol is consumed (more by him than by me) and he comes over and starts talking to me. The conversation progresses, we might've talked about the last time we met, and he tells me that he finds me intimidating. I'm a bit WTAF so ask him why and he says it's because I'm "very confident".
I don't think I'm more confident than
average, I'm certainly not arrogant, but why is confidence considered a negative trait? Or is he just a bit of a dick?
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Since when is "being confident" a bad thing?
PineappleFwitters · 08/10/2016 11:32
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