So ive recently come out if a long term unhealthy relationship that completely destroyed my self esteem after he broke up with me 3 times in as many years.
After the 3rd time i decided enough was enough and didn't take him back.
It is now 2 months on and I've just started to venture into online dating.
I've been speaking to a guy who seemed really keen to meet me. After 2 days of text conversation he asked me out yesterday afternoon for tonight? He said "I have plans but let me know if you want to go out and I'll cancel them as would love to see you" i told him this wasn't necessary and we could just meet when we were both free but he insisted it was ok. Roll on to this morning (day of the date) and he asked me "whats on the agenda today then?" i said i would be free from 6 tonight and that we should get a drink somewhere. His response was "tonight? I couldn't shift my plans as ive already cancelled twice and i got a guilt trip phone call from my friend this morning" he then offered an alternative date but its made me feel slightly annoyed.
Would you give the benefit of doubt and rearrange?
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First date cancellation- would you give another chance?
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VIX1307 · 01/10/2016 14:00
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