Separated few years many reasons but partly consequence of me falling for another man who turned out wasn't interested in any relationship wiv me, he just blew hot & cold keeping me hanging on. Problem is this guy still in my work, we don't have any face to face contact anymore, but every so often he'll bombard me with calls/ emails regarding something trival for several wks then I'll not hear anything from him from months. Hate to say it, but I still hold a candle for him & find myself thinking about stupid reasons to contact him. I was pretty infatuated by him & he's playing on this. Makes me feel really sick wiv myself for being such an idiot. How can I avoid having this contact ( which gets me wound up), changing jobs isn't a option
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