Ok so, dp of a year and a half love him, we are best friends and good sex life. All good BUT his work commitments mean he an work up to 80 hours a week and I have 2 DC to previous partner. Due to his work commitments the lack of time spent together is causing a strain. We've been bickering about it for a good few months now, but the last few weeks have turned into full blown arguments. We used to sleep over together and don't anymore, this annoys me. It's been argued about so much I've run out of energy. His side is he just going to be asleep and up early anyway so doesn't see the point. For me it's more an intimacy/comfort thing. I feel like if I don't walk away from it we arguments will never stop and we will end up resenting each other. He has last night offered to re-think how things are working out after me saying this was the end of the road, but to be honest I don't hold out much hope. Everything else is great it's just this issue and i should add, if I suggest going dinner when we are free hes says no he's tired. It's just got mundane and although I love him to bits I just don't think I can live like that anymore.
Sorry for the rant, I needed to get it out. I have doubt I'm doing the right thing.
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I'm going with my gut feeling on this, but my heart is broken
AndDontCallMeShirley · 26/08/2016 09:55
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