Hi
So many things I've found out about this man. Found out he had a proxy marriage - not entirely sure of the logistics but its to a Portuguese woman, found out he's working in this country and he's not supposed to be found out his immigration status is with the home office. None of this I found out until after LO was born. So the man I met and "knew" isn't he same man. Now he needs a DNA so that he can give it to home office to "help his case".
I don't respect trust or like this man. Anyway whilst he was in the bathroom following his two weekly visit to see LO, I went through his wallet. Good or bad ...... Well I found two bank cards in another man's name. So I tried to create a scenario. I said to him to give me his bank details so I can transfer some money so he could buy me something near where he lives. After asking about 10 times he was very reluctant. So I then thought hang on how have u got an account if you are not legal? He tells me it's his "brothers" account. WTF!!!!!! And tries to play it down saying that it's not an issue and that his "brother" allows him to it. This man is Nigerian. I regret the day I met him as everything was FALSE. Only good thing is Lo. Why the hell should I help him now. He has lied to me from DAY ONE. I can't even bear him near me or in my home. Good job we live two hours away from each other.
Thoughts anyone?
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isobel79 · 08/08/2016 17:55
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