She is ruining my life..

user1468602338 · 2016-07-23 16:52:25

Thank god for this place to talk to people. I would of gone crazy lately. I look after my gran who has dementia. I do it alone and I'm struggling. My uncle does nothing and I mean nothing. My aunt lives in Australia and has no idea how hard it is. The latest problem is my nana has wax in her ears and can't hear. I can never get in the house,she refuses to give out a key and keeps her bolt in. She can't hear the phone ring unless she's close to it. She refuses to put drops in her ears as she says it's not her ears it's the people in the wall messing around with her ears. The nurse won't syringe them till she puts drops in. My aunty rang and said oh well what can we do..I do everything cook,clean everything and it's hard whilst she's living it up in aus. So my aunty goes oh well Monday take her to the doctors then the doctor will tell her she needs drops in then do the drops then take her back Friday. Just like that..oh yeah il just continue to run about. Every night I call my nan at 8 but she can't hear so I can't ring to check on her. If I ring and she can't hear it then I will panic that she's fallen but then if I get to her house I still can't get in as the door is locked. I'm sick of my life Why can't she just put the ear drops in so her ear will get syringed. I could write a list of everything ..every week it's something new but it's me who has to sort it all out. They don't give a shit I'm sick of my life

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