I need some advice & opinions please.
Please don't judge me for what Im about to write.
I suffer from depression & anxiety, have done for years and unfortunately I smoked throughout both pregnancies (cut down a lot) with the midwives knowledge. At the time my husband was supportive and understood.
Over the years he has smoked weed on & off which I hate and it has always caused rows but he had agreed he wouldn't do it unless staying away at friends, which is rare anyway. Yesterday I found some in his car. The previous day I had used his car for work which is a law enforcement role. If my car had of been searched which is a possibility I would have lost my job & career. The main issue for me is the deception. When talking about this with him he said that I didn't have a leg to stand on as "I didn't care that I could have killed the children or if they lived or died" due to smoking when pregnant. I'm really upset as he has used this to try & justify the weed not giving any thought to my feelings. He knows the huge amount of guilt I have about it and yet chose to purposely upset me just to try and prove a point. I don't know how to handle this.
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Husband using my past mistake to justify his deception and use of weed
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kdtinkerbell27 · 13/07/2016 06:04
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