Married for nearly a year, together with DH for six. Very happy stable relationship, no trouble with jealously or flirting or anything. HOWEVER I have just borrowed his tablet to check a friend's Facebook birthday and found some concerning info when clicking on the search bar.
He has been searching for/viewing two women repeatedly for the last few months (Facebook search history says this). After a bit of digging, looks like one of them isn't on Facebook but she is a work colleague that he obviously is keen to track down/view. The other is a work colleague he is not friends with but obviously likes looking at. Her photos are all tiny dresses, boobs and bum, and she's about 22...
Do I a) stop being so mental and trust he is just curiously looking at their profiles wishing he was young enough/attractive enough to go there (he's 37)
b) Calmly ask him what is going on?
....Feeling shocked and a bit sick.
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bettyclocks · 30/06/2016 19:48
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