Met a guy 3 weeks ago this Saturday, spent all weekend together and went home Sunday night. Since then we have been inseparable. I've met his family, we have been on plenty dates, i feel like we know each other so well. Plenty mutual friends etc etc.
I'm just really scared it's all going too fast! He has told me he loves me, and I must admit I do feel really strongly about him too but it's the kinda thing where if someone told me this about themselves, I'd be a bit like wtf?! He says he feels very lucky to have me and I do him too as he is lovely to me.
He said it is fast, but it doesn't feel wrong and it was inevitable that we were going to be in a relationship so why delay it. he said if it feels right then just go ahead and do it. I see where he is coming from but I'm worried nonetheless. I don't really know why.
My previous relationship was horrible. Emotional abuse and he was still getting at me until recently. I think this has had some effect on how I am feeling now. I feel like I aren't worthy of being treat so nice and it's not right.
I just need reassuring really that every relationship is difference and goes at different paces.
Anyone ever been through anything similar and how did it work out?
thank you xxx
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Happy but scared about my new relationship
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eirrah · 21/06/2016 12:43
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