Hoping for help as my ex tends to blast things at me to confuse me.
Seperated one year & he's texted to say he wants to start discussing divorce.
I had assumed we'd wait two years as no adultery & going down the unreasonable behaviour route would strain our amicable ish relationship (well if I did it on him he'd prob never speak to me again!)
Also I don't want to discuss things with him privately because like I said he bamboozles me into things! We have kids & equity in the house & my car, his pension to take into account.
Can someone tell me how this works, does he go to a soliciter, petition for divorce, we go to a mediator, then court. have I got that right?
I had assumed hoped I'd wait two years & I'd file against him.
Btw he's brought this up because he's angry I've asked him to have the kids eow - he prefers to come round and piss all over his territory.
He's a strange bloke, I've changed username but got a lot of support at the time of seperating. If anyone remembers he's the one who slept in my brand new bed while I was away & got cross on ds birthday that I'd ruined his chance to sing happy birthday because I'd not made a cake for his visit!!
So if anyone can help me navigate this it'd be v appreciated!
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WellDoYaPunk · 20/06/2016 12:40
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