My DP and I haven't had sex in 18 months. I think he'd have liked to but I just haven't wanted to. It's not sex - I do want sex. I love him. I just don't want to have sex with him. He's changed a lot physically and I'm just not attracted to him. He's a lovely man, such a good daddy to our boys. I feel so guilty.
I know the conversation is coming, but I'm dreading it. I know this can't go on.
This morning he came on to me, for the first time in ages - the issue generally gets avoided. I pretty much ran for it. Now I'm sitting downstairs shaking. He must feel so crap, and I feel like such a bitch.
Not sure why I'm posting, I just feel so trembly and scared.
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DP just came on to me. I practically ran away.
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AtALoss2016 · 18/06/2016 10:54
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