Dh and I aren't getting on, we both work have children etc the normal stuff. We see little of each other with work but when we do he's rarely interested in sex. I know he watches porn most days when I'm not there and 'sorts himself out' I've never been bothered by it, until now. He is lazy in that sense (he's not lazy with home things and work and childcare) but when it comes to sex he's ridiculously lazy. I wondered for a while why he wasn't interested until he told me about the porn. It's starting to make me uninterested, I feel uncomfortable about it now and I find I'm starting to feel very self conscious about myself and my appearance. I can't get in the mood with him anymore and to be honest I'm starting to feel that he isn't for me. It has caused a massive problem for me , I used to have a huge sex drive, I still do, but I feel horrible about sex and anyrhing to do with it. I feel uncomfortable if people talk about it or I see it on the TV even if I'm alone. I can't understand why I feel this way.
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