Hi,
I came out of 5 year relationship, and just recently started seeing someone else for about 2 months. My issue is that I'm not sure if this guy is really using me or actually does like me! He has a child from a previous relationship like me, but he's had a lot of girlfriends since then...we message each other everyday but he only sees me once a week...sometimes twice, he's never met my child and I've never met his! He sends me pictures of his daughter when theyve been on days out. He doesn't talk about his feeling much but sprung out that he thought we should go out! But I swear he was talking to other women, and possibly still does. It doesn't feel like its a relationship with seeing him so little and only really seeing him on the night time! I'm 20 and he's 32, which makes me feel weary about it, especially with his past! I feel that he probably sees me as young and vulnerable and sees me as a low maintenance, low pressure woman...I don't know what to make of this situation!! I don't want to be seen as some naive girl, but find it hard to approach serious conversations with him.
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Am I being used?
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user1465406172 · 08/06/2016 18:35
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