Hello everyone, I'm a young mummy to a beautiful 20month old boy and he's my rock, I've been with my partner for 3 and a half years and all started well, things became rocky when I was pregnant and ever since my little was born he has obviously been my life but for my partner not so much. We still don't live together and I'm starting to doubt if we ever will, my boyfriend has only just got a job so hasn't really paid much for our son at all, I've worked my socks off in a nursery with 40 hours a week plus looking after my son while my partner doesn't seem to care of help out. I don't feel any support from him. He texts back every few hours, doesn't ever seem to put us as his priority. I just feel I'm losing confidence, I'm not myself and I feel stuck on what to do, it breaks my heart he's not around for our son. He comes every week or maybe even two for 2/3 nights and that's about it. Even when I go to soft play and I went with my mum as I don't really have any baby mama friends or may of my own since my son was born but just seeing the other dads take their children and enjoy them etc. Made me become teary and hate myself. Any advise? I'm probably silly to still be standing with my boyfriend and just feel taken for granted. Thank you for anyone who reads sorry it's long lol! X
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