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x friend bulling whole family

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Marielew01 · 15/05/2016 16:35

I made friends with this woman (25) at a nursery both our children attended last year. Long story short we got quite close quickly and I thought I could trust her. She was due to be married but the person in her family who promised her the money let her down, so I supported her with everything, I stupidly introduced her to my best friends to also help. Well since the wedding and a genuine mistake in wrong text sent to the wrong person, her (was supposed to be sent to my cousin in a family dispute) she is destroying my friendships and those of my little ones best friends. She is bulling a 4 and a half year old via my friends and little ones friends. She's firmly imbedded herself between us all. Little one has emotional distress problems and she is using this to stop her being in the same place as little ones friends as she doesn't want her daughter anywhere near mine. Little ones best friend is having a birthday party next month and she's been invited and I know she'll turn up with her bully husband to make her daughter centre of attention and also she won't hesitate making my little one feel awful. This woman has turn out to be vile and an adult who bullies to get her own way no matter what age the receiving person is. Please advise I don't want little one suffering at her hands through her friends anymore.

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pocketsaviour · 15/05/2016 18:05

All a bit dramatic.

Are your DC still both at same nursery? If not I see no reason to have anything to do with her. Don't attend party - simply tell your friend "Sorry but as XX is going I won't be attending - she's extremely aggressive to both me and my DD."

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Hissy · 15/05/2016 18:22

What happened with the text?

I agree, tell friend the truth and explain why you can't come to the party.

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Marielew01 · 15/05/2016 19:58

The text was an answer to my cousin as my sister had lied to us. I sent the message to this x friend to my cousin and the one to my cousin to the x friend it was a bit harsh, but no amount of explaining and showing has helped. The party in question is little ones best friend so we thought and the party mum is well aware of the risk this sociopath is. Feeling quite alone and isolated from those I love

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Marielew01 · 15/05/2016 20:01

It was a genuine mistake of sending the wrong messages to the wrong people as I so upset at that moment. I had already distanced my family from hers as just before her wedding she quite proudly announce to me her husband was taking drugs, I personally will have nothing to do with anyone who touches the evil stuff.