I think I need to offload more than anything, but wondering if this is normal and will pass or if I need to be asking GP for ad's.
My stbxh moved out nearly a year ago and lives with ow. We've now established a routine of contact, ow is nice to the kids and they feel safe/happy when they're with him. I did think I was getting myself back together, but The last couple of times they've stayed with him, I've started getting, almost panic attacks and I've had to stop myself driving round to get them back. It's like I've lost all my purpose when they're gone - I've no idea what I should do with myself. My concentration level has gone completely since he left, I end up distracting myself flitting around on social apps. Maybe I need to find some sort of hobby. I have had a go at online dating, but finally admitted to myself that it's just for the distraction and probably not helping me sort myself out.
I can't seem to get past the horrors that I'm either single parenting or completely on my own.
If anyone's further on in this journey I'd be grateful for some advice on how to get through this bit?
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