I'm not sure whether to say something about what is going on - my father is a bit of a hothead where his women are concerned and I've learned over the years that they come first.
He met this woman about a year ago. He is nearly 70, she is closer to 50. He always becomes distant to me when there's another woman on the scene - his last LTR the woman was quite nice and I think encouraged him to keep in touch with us but that broke off. He met this new woman within weeks.
This new woman though is a different kettle of fish altogether. She has come across as quite an astute piece of work and it appears she is encouraging my father to stop contact with me and my children.I dont hear from him any more and whenever I call she answers. If I ring his mobile the call is never returned. Now the worrying part - I have heard through friends that he has made huge expensive changes to his house / car/ bought lots of stuff etc which is a bit out of character for him (hes a bit of a miser usually).
The icing on the cake is that I have now heard that she has handed my dad 50k in exchange for half his house! My father has always been a bit wowed by large sums of cash and has probably thought this was a great deal. She wasnt feeling settled in the house apparently and it didnt feel like it was hers.
She has moved her adult DC into her house so that remains entirely hers.
I have the feeling my father is being financially 'done over' but Im not comfortable with saying anything. My father is in good health but has always been swayed by his dick unfortunately.
Should I say anything or keep quiet?
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Unsure about my Dad's girlfriends motives
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bewilderedfish · 23/04/2016 12:03
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