Some might have read my threads here this year, I've had to name change from DragonsCanHop to this one probably due to my own paranoid mind.
It's been 9 really, really fucking hard weeks but I'm happy. I've turned a corner and although the DC haven't caught up with me yet (obv since they are DC) I'm feeling so much stronger in looking at it all and thinking, yes it is sad I picked the wrong one - I didn't though, because we have our DC. I can forgive him for who he is, I wish him well and hope he can find happiness and build a relationship with his DC.
But.
I know our DC love me, they know I love them, I'm setting clear boundaries and they are sticking to them, work have been amazing and since opening up to trusted people I have found laughter and smiles and I know they feel proud that I'm doing it on my own, my friends are there when needed and I have the time to be there for them.
Things feel great, positive and I just wanted to share that. It's not been easy, it won't be roses but I'm thinking about me and my own feelings and it's working.
It can be done, it's not easy but when you find the strength and let others help you, you can escape from the madness of being second/third/forth best.
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Just to let you know. I'm happy now
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HoppingForward · 07/04/2016 22:29
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