I got married in EU country in August with partner who I know and live with for 10 years , we have 7 y.o. daughter. After 4 months, in December I gor a stroke, which affected my moving talking writting etc. I needed to learn everything again, I'm on ESA now, stroke made me disabled. \it will need a time to get to 100% who I was and I could. Anyway my husband was lovely only for 2 weeks in hospital, when I got home and start having recovery, therapists and learn everything he started to calling me bad names, did not answer to my requests and spending time with neighbours , where he "relaxes" himself. The reson of my stroke were: stress, nerves and spray paintings which made my blood thicker. I use to aint with my husband. He was still paintins, even he knew that the doctor from neurology unit told it was a reason. He did not want to stop, so \i warned him couple of times and called the police. After this he moved out to neighbours, took a loan from a bank ( we had seperate accounts) - I was 7 weeks after stroke then. I was trying to explain him about the stroke , but he told me he knows everything from internet, I tried to make a therapy, but he told me "no" and finally he moved out for good - 10 weeks after my stroke. Meanwile he told me he will diverce me, which I agree now - I has in double hell thanks to him , but he doesn't agree it's his fault. He did not pay any money to me and after a stroke I did not receive any money as a self-employed, he did not want to give me his statements from a bank to let me claim for even ESA. I needed to wait when he move to have tenant agreement only for me and borrowed money from mum, cause I did not receive any money also my husband took a lot of things when he moved, he told me "these are mine I pay for it". He is also addicted to pornography, we had a lot of fight about this, he never wanted to go to specialist either.
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