My then partner left me after we got a house together for the best part of a year when I was in my mid twenties citing one of the main reasons was that I was 'always ill all the time' and he didn't love me anymore. We did get back together as he said he missed me - but I never got over him saying this. He is still unsympathetic if I'm ill. I have since been diagnosed with 3 lifelong conditions (nothing hedious and hopefully don't look too ugly for it ).
He also said that once the kids are at school he expects me to support myself which I have done as I am a very proud person and not a moaner. I only work part-time but am looking to go back full time now my kids are much older which I want to do to be fully independent and for my own pride.
I do worry if I will cope - what do you do in this situation? Having said that I am looking to go back full time as I love working and getting out and about.
Don't know if I really want advice just wanted to see if anyone has been through something similar as all my friends seem to be fit as a butchers dogs and sprouting more babies left right and centre ( not that I'm jealous or anything so can't really talk to them about it.
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custardmountains2 · 13/03/2016 20:52
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