Just that really: I had a close friend (and work colleague) who used to confide in me, ask me for advice with decisions, hang out in the pub with me and have a laugh etc etc. About a year ago she began slowly distancing herself from me and we are now at the point where she pretends we were never friends and is very off with me whenever i see her.
I get that friendships don't last forever and maybe i just wasn't the kind of friend she wanted but I can't let go of the feeling of failure. Even though she has behaved like a bitch at times towards me, I keep searching for a reason why she stopped wanting to be friends with me, I think partly because it feel so out of my hands. She decided she didn't want to be friends with me anymore, she didn't tell me why (I have asked her) or give me a chance to rectify things, she now has created this new history that we were never friends. I'm guessing my problem is a self-esteem issue and if i had higher self-esteem I wouldn't be taking it so personally. Any advice about how to move on?
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How to not feel like a failure when a friendship ends?
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happyclappysnappy · 06/03/2016 11:54
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